His head was about the same size as his shaft too. He was about an inch or so longer than me because more of his cock stuck out past the top of my hand when I had my hand around his base but it was thinner. I was very familiar with the feel of my own cock and the difference in the shape and size of his and my cock felt immediately apparant when I took hold of him. It did feel very strange because the only cock I had ever had in my hand and been mine. I turned towards him now and took hold of his cock the same way he did to mine.
He slid his hand up over my head and then back down my shaft and he pumped my cock a few times and then he stopped. He then commented that he thought my head was cool and he loved the shape of it. At this point he started to move his hand up my shaft until the top of his hand got to the ridge of my head and he stopped. He commented that I was very hard and that I definitely felt thicker than his did. He had his hand wrapped around my cock and he was squeezing me tight. My cock was already oiled and so was his hand because that was what he was using on himself. We were both using baby oil for lube because baby oil lasts a long time and does not dry out so you can masturbate a long time with out needing to re-lube. I took my hands off my cock and he turned towards me and took hold of the base of my shaft with his hand. I thought it would be cool to let him feel and I told him sure he could if I could do the same. We were very comfortable with each other at this point so his request didn't bother me at all. One day we were watching one of our movies and had been jerking for about 20 minutes or so and he asked me if he could feel how hard I was. He was the first one to break the contact barrier. This was just something we were both doing on the side that our wives did not know about that was a fun outlet for us. We both knew that what we were doing did not make us gay and did not threaten our sexuality at all as we were both married and both were very active with our wives. There was no more uncomfortable separation in the room and we both were comfortable with what was going on.
This took about 6 or 7mos of meeting a few times a month to get to this comfort level.Īround that time we were always sitting right next to each other on the couch as we watched the movie and jerked off. We would make comments about how hard each other was and we would let each other know where we were at on our road to orgasm. As we got comfortable we would talk to each other more while watching the movie and jerking. Over time we started to get more comfortable and would not worry too much about where we were sitting.
Whatever two seats in front of the tv were furthest apart is where we would sit.
When we started we would be sitting about as far from each other in the room as we could. If we took a look would it mean we were gay or was kind of a strange feeling and experience. We weren't sure where to look, if we should keep our eyes on the movie or if we were allowed to take a look at what the other was doing. The first time we jerked off together was kind of awkward as neither of us had ever done that before and neither of us had ever been naked like that in front of another guy. After a while we stopped trading and would watch them together. It started off somewhat by accident as we would trade porn back and forth. I told you about the guy that I used to jerk off with from time to time. This is an email I sent to a friend who was curious about what I used to do with a jerk off buddy.